Ok, this is my first time blogging so bear with me.

Every week, i have faced a situation that puts me in a very tricky position. Since l am a guy. it is an obvious case that this is about GIRLS. I like girls and i have had my fair share of experience with them. So this blog is going to basically show some of the guys out there that, there are in better situations than l am, and it will also highlight that girls can be as "immature" as guys are. read it! it is fun!

Now, here is the situation. I am an average guy, chubby and laid back. I moved to a new country this year and i haven't adjust to my current environment so I mostly talk to people back via various social websites. 

When i left my home country, a cousin of mine who goes to a girls high school, had introduced me to her friends. As any guy can imagine, three quarters of the girls were very beautiful. When l met them, it was heaven and with my luck, my cousin had already told her friends how a "great guy" l am. This just made it easier for me to get to know most of them on a personal level. 

Naturally, I found one specific girl that l liked, her name was Tashy. I asked her out several times but I honestly don't know why we went out. My cousin told me that she really liked me and was willing to even go out with me but l don't know why she refused to go out with me.
Tashy's friends knew what was going on between me and her, so it meant that any attempts to ask out her friends would make me look like a "jerk or a player". I therefore avoided temptations with any of her friends.


A few weeks later, Tashy started going out with another guy. It then got me thinking that she might had been going out with this other guy without me knowing. She confessed to me a few days after I was told this heart-breaking rumour. I didn't show Tashy that i was  hurt but it really was a hard time for me. I respected Tashy's new relationship and this meant that we stopped talking as much as we used to. Our friendship faded day by day but i still maintained a good relationship with her friends.


Seeing that Tashy had moved on, l did the same. I meant this girl named Sammy. Sammy and l had a great relationship. We went out for 6 months and we enjoyed the time we spent together. Keep in mind, these were not rebound feelings that I had for Sammy. I forgot about Tashy while l was with Sammy and I had the time of my life. Because I was living my home country, me and Sammy split up. Around the same time, Tashy was experiencing problems in her relationship but l did not want to interfere in her problems so l never talked to her.

My last week in my home country, my cousin told me Tashy broke up with her boyfriend. I felt sorry for her, hence i called her and we talked about it and I manage to comfort her. We got back to our usual ways and now that I was living it made her very sad. We talked almost everyday till l left. In my belief, l guess we just picked up from where we left off.

One night when we was texting, she told me the most shocking thing ever. She told me, she regretted not choosing me over the other guy. l was happy but then again frustrated for what she said. I was frustrated that this whole time she was "playing the game"and the whole time i was blinded by my "emotions". I don't hate her for what she did, she was just playing the game and she played me good. The best part is that she was in regret. It just came to show that my game was better than hers. I had won the battle against Tashy!


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